I've fixed the issue for now, managed to play for 2 hours last night. First round with 0-7, then 4-5 and my final round I managed 13-6 somehow. Only playing on 16 player servers running domination as they are the closest to the conditions we will be in.
Lot's of hiding places I need to find on the maps.
Would be great if maybe this weekend the 5 of us can get together for a few games just to see how it goes.
ill be on sunday night 6 till late, if we can all get on for a few hours that would be great, as we sort of need to learn to stick together and learn to communicate, location names would be a bonus.